Strength in the numbers.

Three years ago I was a loner, a fearful woman who wouldn’t dare expose herself to any public event without getting a migraine that the tension of meeting people provoked. Now, three years later, life has taken an amazing turn, at long last, for the better.

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How to close a chapter of your life.

Some chapters must be closed so we can go ahead and move on to the next. No, it’s not easy, but who said life was easy? As M. Scott Peck says in his book “The road Less Travelled,” “Life is difficult. This is a great truth, one of the greatest truths. It is a great […]

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If only…

Don’t you hate the sentence starting with: “If only…?” Damn! I have ‘t used this expression in the past tense in decades. “If only I had not drunk myself silly…” What belongs to the past must stay there, but should be kept as a reminder of what not do gain! Like hitting your head against […]

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Walk the walk…

Does what people say, match what they do? Lowering our expectations, might lead to a happier life! We expect so much from people that we are inevitably let down. We hold onto people’s words and promises without checking if, in fact, their words match their actions. Then, we are caught by surprise and often feel […]

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Life instructions

Don’t you wish you had been given a little instruction book on life at birth? Yet, this might also kill it for us. Our high expectations in our youth, our dreams and hopes would lack luster. We just have to go along with it and make our way blindly. There is no right path, we […]

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Missing someone…

  How can you miss someone you have barely spent 1% of your life with? Someone so far removed, but yet so close? You can, believe me, it is all about the role they played, and how they touched your life. 

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We are responsible for our lives.

We are responsible for what happens in our lives. That leap we take, that step in any direction is our own doing, however, unconscious it is, WE take it. Life doesn’t just happen to us. Things do get in the way and shape us, but we choose how we react to them. When you take […]

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