Sadness: Why we should’t avoid feeling it.

I used to avoid and block sadness using any technique possible. Drinking, taking pills, and any form of escapism. I was afraid of it. What I feared most was my anticipation of pain which I thought I couldn’t handle. There is a positive side of sadness. Sadness can be a time of reflection, evaluation, of stepping […]

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Why we shouldn’t forget.

There are moments in our lives we’d like to erase. But our brains are wired in such a way that we won’t forget no matter how much time elapses. Time will soften the blow of a memory, but it won’t do away with it. Those things that had the most emotional impact are stored, and […]

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The soundtracks of our lives.

We all experience mood changes prompted by music. Music that might take us down memory lane, making us feel happy or sad. So, the music we tend to like, whether it brings up positive or not so happy emotions make up who we are. Music marks our lives and we choose those tunes. 

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Do something nice for yourself today!

We get so lost in all those things we have to do for others, that we forget the main character in the play: Us! When we overextend ourselves for other people, we lose sight of what we want, what we need and it slowly starts to weigh us down. While I am all for reaching out and […]

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