As I reflect on the speeding passage of time, I’ve noticed a shift in my yearly resolutions, hopes, and dreams. This isn’t a negative development; it signifies that I’ve either achieved those aspirations or some have lost their significance. Time provides a valuable perspective on life.

I had an extensive list of goals and self-improvement in my younger years. I’m grateful that I’ve attained my objective of securing a fulfilling job where I can teach, find happiness, and sustain myself. Each day, I express gratitude for this accomplishment. Other items on my list of 50 or more have also materialized, such as finding a home filled with light, thanks to a friend who scouted the area while I was away in Spain. She secured the deal, and I wasn’t even present.

On a personal level, I’ve successfully transformed aspects of my personality, becoming more grateful and loving and letting go of anger. The challenge of managing anger surfaced with the passing of my best friend, Tom. His absence prompted me to relinquish my anger, inspired by his lack of it. Some items on my list were beyond my control, requiring time to accept that they weren’t inherently harmful—such as my inclination to be a loner, now viewed as a necessary recharge station.

I’ve learned valuable lessons about setting boundaries, particularly with loved ones. A poignant realization came when dealing with a family member who broke my heart, prompting me to establish limits while maintaining love and some sort of understanding.

Many other items on my list have naturally resolved themselves, and numerous fears have dissipated as life presented challenges that compelled me to take charge. This year, my list was concise and achievable, focusing on professional and personally meaningful aspirations. Whether they come to fruition, I approach the new year with a sense of contentment, recognizing that I am enough.

This year, my niece, sister, and I gathered to write our hopes, dreams, and resolutions as part of our annual tradition. It’s a joyous tradition where we revisit the previous year’s lists and, like this year, are pleasantly surprised by our accomplishments. The dwindling of lists is a testament to our growth and fulfillment.